All I ever wanted in life was a serious relationship with a lifestyle Mistress. I honestly thought it would be easy to find someone like that, I really did. Men had a reputation of being self-centred (especially in bed), being ill mannered and for cheating and lying all the time. I was and did none of that, I just wanted to serve and obey. It should have been easy. But it was not. Because for every genuine Mistress there were at least three hundred slaves. If not more. Still, I met, served and obeyed some of these wonderful Ladies. Not as a lover or a boyfriend, but as one of many slaves and admirers. Sure, I always hoped for more, but a the same time I got much more than I deserved. I’m grateful for everything and if I could do my life over again, I would do it exactly the same way. Because I was what I was and I couldn’t go without. Finding a real-deal Mistress is much harder nowadays, because the fundamental ideas, values and principles of Female Domination are melting faster than the glaciers. Femdom has become a soap, a weird comedy in which the slaves have more class, style and intelligence than the Women who are supposed to lead them. I know, you probably think that I’m a sorry old fool who thinks that everything was better in the past. Well, some things were, some things not. Femdom was. So save it, before it’s too late.
Frank V. (March 1934-August 2021)
Frank V. (March 1934-August 2021)
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I agree. For anyone to be authentic it must come from within, and today most so called dommes are not that at all. As it takes much more to be a man than simply pulling on a pair of pants, so it is with a dominatrix. Leather boots or a power suit does not make a dominant. Certainly on the internet you can see it in their eyes, their facial expressions. They are just models. There are a few exceptions, the ladies Ezada Sinn and Sidonia Von Bork for example. I think many young girls go through an education system where they are taught about ‘woke politics…feminism…independence…etc etc. Consequently they try to emulate this, particularly those in politics or the media; yet any half experienced submissive can see right through them. Their power lies only in their employers, who simply comply to the law of equal opportunity, positive discrimination (or whatever term is used). As you say, we are what we are and it cannot be denied. However, for the most part, I would never kneel for long before the majority of western women today. They just have no idea. For the those of the east, many still maintain the feminine beauty and soft allure of a goddess. To them I would crawl, grovel and beg just to be near. My spirit worships these souls.